There’s something sacred about a closet clean-out—especially when you’re doing more than just organizing hangers. Lately, I’ve found myself craving a fresh start. Not just in my space, but in my spirit. As I prepare for an upcoming move, and continue walking through this new season of self-healing and discovery, I decided it was time to let go—physically and emotionally.

For weeks (okay, months), I’ve been putting off organizing my closet. Every time I opened the door, I felt overwhelmed. Not just by the clothes, but by what they represented: past versions of myself, outdated expectations, and emotional weight I hadn’t been ready to confront.

But this time, I approached it differently—not as a chore, but as a ritual of release.

So I lit my Sublime Patchouli candle and played Apple Music playlists from late artists Angie Stone and Aaliyah, while sorting through clothes that no longer suit me. It saddened me to hear that Angie Stone passed earlier this month. I was slowly coming out of my annual winter depression, when I saw a TikTok post from a friend, commemorating her music, the Sunday following Angie’s death.

It made me see once again how short life can be. Of course, Angie was a few decades older than Aaliyah when she passed, but they both met their demise in accidents. What were their dreams? What was left undone in their lives? What would be undone in mine if I were to suddenly go? The book I’ve wanted to write since I was nine? The nail salon I never opened?

So I took action—finally—and started with my clothes. Instead of simply tossing unwanted items aside, I created a donation pile. These weren’t just clothes—they were stories, memories, energy. Passing them along feels like an act of hope. Someone else will wear that dress to a job interview or cozy up in that sweater on a hard day.

It reminded me that healing isn’t only about what we remove from our lives—but also what we choose to pour back into the world. If you’re inspired to donate, consider local shelters, women’s resource centers, or mutual aid groups. A small gesture can become a soft place for someone else to land.

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✨ Have you done any spring cleaning lately—physically or emotionally? What are you releasing this season?

I’d love to hear in the comments or on Threads.